IRONIC.

“Life has a funny way of sneaking up on you.” I could not agree more on Alanis Morissete on this. Life indeed has a funny way of sneaking up, the funniest way, I must say. Yes, Ironic is my October jam, if you know what I mean. It’s on repeat since this morning, and as I go on, I will explain how ironic my life has become since October last year.

I have shared the scam story a couple of times already, so I won’t tell it again. Nope, I won’t put the link here as well. If you want to know about it, might as well look for it on my previous posts—haha. I am just so tired of telling it over and over again, maybe if it ended, then I’ll be glad to share it again.

So here’s the thing.. I want to share how ironic my life has become. You see, I’ve always wanted to be a lawyer—this has been my one and only dream since I was in highschool. I went up stage, got my college diploma, and thought I was ready for law school, but nope… I’ve started to work to support my needs (and wants) and decided to quit after almost 2 years, and started law school. I’ve never been so dedicated until I entered law school. Until one day, a friend approached me for help, and yes, of course I did help her. Only to find out that she just wanted a million bucks, and then pooooof.. She’s gone now, yes with the million bucks that I gave her (from me and my friends’ hard work) *insert the scam story here* soryy can’t help it. Isn’t it super ironic that I’m starting to build my path to legal profession, and here comes some legal problem…. A LITTLE TOO IRONIC, DON’T YOU THINK?

I was just starting to build my rainbow towards my path of gold, and then this? A lot may think that I’m one of the strongest disciples of God, for I am still here, alive! Well, I’ve tried killing myself, actually. I’m not as strong as other people think. I am one of the weakest… I guess???!!! Haaay..

It’s been a year now, and I still got no clue on how to give back every penny that was robbed by my friend (well, ex-friend) Don’t you think it’s a little unfair that I’m the one suffering when I didn’t spend a single cent on that money? Haay. I thought so too, but I have to be responsible on this.. I gave my relatives and my friends my word—that this one’s legit! UGH! F! Big time! L

… I just want to live a happy life! I want to move on.. I want to…… just be happy, that’s all!!

 

I don’t know what else to say, and how to end this.. sorry,

blairyrandom

IN A RELATIONSHIP..

I still don’t know what to feel. “Happy” is just a plain word to describe my emotions right now. I fell in love with this guy 7 days ago, so again I will ask… IS IT TOO SOON? I don’t know but I always talk to myself every night and explain it like this…

Self, you have given chances to other men out there, but you didn’t feel the same happiness that you are feeling when you gave this guy the SAME chance you gave them. Why would you think that it happened too soon? You have known the man for almost 9 years now. He’s not a total stranger. Fate worked in your ways. You have always been so patient with love, and you never look for it. Instead, you let love find you. Destiny wants you to be happy, so it gave you your today. Enjoy every today, who cares what will happen tomorrow…

I am still scared of being committed to someone. I just don’t know if I can still fulfil the duties of a good, if not the best, girlfriend. I haven’t been in a relationship for years, and suddenly this.. this will happen. No regrets, anyway. I’m happy with my decision, and I guess it’s about time. Funny that I just changed my relationship status on facebook, from single to in a relationship. Yep, that, in itself, confirms everything.

Why would I even complicate my life? I love him, and I believe he feels the same, so what’s the reason of not committing, anyway? Uhh. Ignore me, I’m just convincing myself, yes up until now, that it is okay to commit. No harm done, self. You’ll be fine. You’ve done it with two men, both ran for years, why can’t you make it now?

I’m just so overwhelm with love right now. Would you believe, I’m posting almost everyday, sharing my experiences with this guy, over and over? I cannot believe it either. I’m taking my chances with him. If I get hurt in the long run, at least it will just prove me that I have loved. I just have to learn how to trust men again.. AND I TRUST HIM… Oh good heavens, I’m saying “I love you” and “I love you too” more than ever! This better work!!

The only reason why I’m always posting stuff like this on my Tumblr is because I know that he’s reading it. So, yes, it’s my own way of putting pressure on him! LOL joke. (I only put this part just to say.. Hi babe! I know you’re reading this! Hahaha 😝)

NOW, HOW TO END THIS? I’m in a relationship.💕

 

with love,

BLAIRYRANDOM

WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME TO FALL IN LOVE?

To begin with, I used to ask myself if I’m really in love, or am I just happy? I have posted on my blogspot account why I am too scared to fall in love.. Well, technically, I am not afraid to fall in love, I have always been in love with the thought of being in love, and with fairytale. I believe that somewhere out there, a knight in a white horse will just grab me from this dark reality and live a happy ever after life with me. What I am really scared of, well not the witch –if you say so, but the PAIN from falling in love and being left alone in the middle of the happy ever after. Makes sense? I know, I know.. People always say that you’re not really  in love if you’re not ready to get hurt. I mean, in reality… LOVE COMES WITH PAIN! They always come in pair. And that’s what I am really scared of… The pain that love may have caused me. I am so weak when it comes to emotional pain.

I have been in love twice in my life. They became my boyfriends. YES, I suffered from extreme pain… That’s why I am too scared of being committed with someone, and being madly in love. When I love, I looooove. The love at its extreme meaning, and finest sense, that is how I love. Well, at least before… I don’t know now. Now, do I make sense here? From justifying why I am afraid of being so in love and of being committed with someone?

But who would have thought.. After three long years of avoiding that love and pain, which I said are always partners, Cupid did his thing and struck me using his bow and arrow—yes, even if it’s not February, yet. After years of waiting, I can really say that I AM IN LOVE! I usually ask myself if what I am feeling is love, and everytime I ask myself, I always get NO as an answer… Not this time! Before I told him that I love him, something happened that really made me realize that THIS, what I am feeling, is LOVE. I thought that this is TOO SOON, but I’d rather put it this way.. WHAT IF THAT TOO SOON IS TOO LATE? The last thing I want to happen is to lose him. So before that TOO SOON became TOO LATE, I told him I love him. That leads me with my title, WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME TO FALL IN LOVE? My answer is.. THERE IS NO RIGHT TIME. LOVE ALWAYS COMES AS A SURPRISE. The only question that you need to ask to know if you’re in love is… DO YOU FEEL THAT IT’S TOO SOON TO FALL IN LOVE? (ANSWER) If you said YES, then what will you do tomorrow if something happens to the one you love? Regret? Then, that TOO SOON should not be considered. If you won’t regret a thing if something happened to him/her, then you’re not in love. On the other hand, if you answered NO, then we don’t have to argue anymore.😄

I would love to share our story, but we are just starting to create memories, so there are still tons of mem’ries out there that I have yet to collect. Maybe few months from now, I could blog about us. After all, we are not yet official couple.

NOT OFFICIAL? Yes, we are not yet there. Sad, I know, but things are just so complicated on my part. Yes, we have that term of endearment, we say “I love you” and “I love you too” to each other, and we talk everyday, so what’s this? I really don’t know. As much as I want to say that this is US, I’d rather say that this is HIM AND ME. Unfair? I guess it’s somehow unfair on his part, but I don’t know.. this is me.. Just the thought of entrusting my happiness to a person scares me. What if I let him be in-charge with my happiness, and then he decided to leave me? I’ll be stuck and get lost. I don’t want that to happen. OR MAYBE IT’S THE DISTANCE? ‘cause you know, we’re more than 4,000 miles apart. Maybe I’m scared that when he’s here, everything will change, and I’ll end up wishing that he’s in my monitor again. I DON’T KNOW. Now, I know I’m not making any sense here. SORRY.

I know. I know. LOVE IS ALL ABOUT TAKING RISKS, but I am not totally ready to entrust everything to him. I’d like to be in-charge of my emotions. This decision of not committing with him doesn’t mean that I don’t love him that much. I love him so much, that I am too scared to lose him. I want to be sure that what we have will last for a lifetime. I want to live every tomorrow with him. I want to spend the rest of eternity with him. It may sound too soon for these, but he made me realize that in love, there is no too soon, and I don’t want to end up saying that it is too late..

I love him. I am giving him an authority to hurt me, but I am trusting him no to. He’s worth the wait, and I believe, will be worth every tear, and every pain, in the future.

LOVE JUST SURPRISED ME. BELIEVE ME, FRIENDS, IT WILL SURPRISE YOU TOO. MAYBE IT’S LOVE KNOCKING ON YOUR DOOR RIGHT NOW.. GOOD LUCK!💕

Cupid Just Struck,
blairyrandom

FOODIE: SUGAR AND BLOOMS

Have you ever had those days of craving for a good red velvet cupcake? Have you ever had those rants of being so irritated because you cannot find a good cuppie in the province? Well, you don't have to deal with those bad days anymore!! Batangas now has a place of heavenly cuppies!!

I am not a professional food blogger. I am just a skinny lady with a huge appetite, and my friends can testify that I am reliable when it comes to what can make your tummy happy. Let me share with you my Sugar and Blooms (SAB) experience/s...

Since I have decided to stay in Batangas, I've been craving for cupcakes that I'm used on eating when I was staying in Makati. One day, one of my friends posted a photo of red velvet cupcakes with a caption "Finally arrived in Lipa!" I posted a comment asking where she got 'em, and she replied that it's near La Salle Lipa. I was in cloud 9 when I figured that it's near my school!! The next day, I asked my blockmates to go there and try their cuppies. Since then, we always make it a point to visit SAB everyday, before class.

This post is to say thank you to Sugar and Blooms for making my happy tummy, almost everyday of my life. SAB is heaven for a cuppie lover like me!!

Blue Velvet Cupcakes

I used to love Red Velvet, but when I tasted this.. Oh! FOOD PORN! I loved it!! This is my new fave cuppy!!! BLUE VELVET!

Pasta Overload

 Upper left: The famous lasagna! They have the BEST lasagna!! For Php 80.00, it comes with a glass of iced tea! Yumm. ;  Upper right: I think that is the chicken alfredo pasta (sorry, lame blogger haha) it was ordered by my friend, and it's also good. ; Bottom photo: Baked Ziti with white sauce. They are not serving this yet, but yummyyyy!!! My new fave. They gave us a free taste of their newest offering- A MUST TRY!! I think they will serve this tomorrow, July 22, 2013.

with my law school loves enjoying SAB

 Always a good SAB experience with these people!!

Sugar and Blooms

So guys, please visit Sugar and Blooms and have a happy tummy!!!

visit their page: https://www.facebook.com/pages/Sugar-and-Blooms/157120574357093

Sugar and Blooms is located at Mataas na Lupa, Lipa City. (Near De La Salle Lipa)

A cuppy lover,
Steffany Blair <3

TO THE WORLD'S GREATEST FRIENDS

Since giving gifts is not really my thing, and spending is not really my common for me (haha) I thought of sparing a space on my personal blog for my bestest friends who are turning a year older this month, July. One yesterday, 20th, and the other on 29th.

My family knows how thankful I am because God blessed me with these two amaziiing friends. Vic, whom I call my bbf (boy bestfriend) has always been my boyfriend for the past 10 years. Vic has always been my partner with everything, and even though we had fights before, we made sure that we patch things up, and settle it like grown-ups. Spye, on the other hand, has always been the ultimate best friend. Spye is the epitome of the word, BEST FRIEND. She has always been there for Vic and me. She's always there to listen and defend me against my frienemies. There are nothing, but good words to describe these two. They are equally amazing, and I love them dearly.

To Spye and Vic,
HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THE BOTH OF YOU. I MAY NOT BE THE PERFECT FRIEND, BUT YOU KNOW THAT I'M ALWAYS HERE AND YOU CAN NEVER GET RID OF ME. hahahha :)))) THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING, FROM SMALL THINGS TO HUGE ONES, THANK YOU THANK YOU, ESPECIALLY FOR ACCEPTING ME FOR WHO I AM. I LOVE YOU BOTH!!

TRIO

with love,
Steffany Blair <3

Is this LOVE?

This is one of those random blog posts that I did just because I have nobody to talk to at this hour.

Have you ever experienced being in love with a person, yet you don't want to admit that what you're feeling is love? Well, that is what's happening to me now. I think Cupid just struck me, and love has got me, again.. I don't like to admit that I am in love for I believe that it is too soon to label this as love.. Maybe I'm just too happy and overwhelm with this guy's presence, but.. I really don't know!!!

Does love have to wait for years to confirm that it is indeed LOVE?

Now I leave this post with a question...

WHEN IS TOO SOON? WHAT IF IT'S TOO LATE?

Confused as shizz,
Steffany  Blair

GOD NEVER BLINKS.

I really don’t know if it’s right for me to share this, but I just want to let this out off my chest. I haven’t shared with everyone that I was involved in a scam on late 2012. I trusted my friend, and invested into a mini business of selling mobile phones in cheaper prices, and was able to convince some of my friends and relatives to invest (or yes, to buy) units from me. That mini business, is so far, the most stupid thing I have ever decided to do. I did not think, well obviously. I became so excited with the profit that I forgot that there is no easy money. Well, I always say this as my reason.. I TRUSTED A FRIEND, IT’S NOT MY FAULT, but deep down in me, I know it’s my fault. Why didn’t I think twice? Why was I so selfish? I blame myself, until now, for dragging my close friends and relatives in this bull crap! I still cannot move on from that tragedy.

It’s almost 9 months. Imagine the burden of bringing the same bull crap everyday of your life, for the past 9 months. It became heavier as the anger of the people involved is uncontrollable. That feeling of apologizing every single time they ask for a refund, is just so sad. I wanted to give them their money back, but how? I don’t have an income, for I am a student. I tried looking for a job, but I cannot find one. I feel sorry for my family for carrying this burden with me. Yes, and it hurts so much that I can sense people thinking that what happened is nothing to me. Well, I’ve been juggling with school, and all --with this bull crap in my system. It’s not easy, never was, and never will be. I’ve been searching for solutions, but it’s not that easy, I repeat, never easy.. The hardest part is, people want me to rely on my family. Well, of course I’ve been asking them for help, but they just cannot shoulder a million bucks, for we are not rich –and I repeat--- WE ARE NOT RICH! People always tell me that we’re rich, and blahblahblah. What’s your basis, guys? The way we carry ourselvesf? Haay. Well, think again..

So why did I share this.. It’s because I had a very serious talk with someone regarding the status of our family.  I don’t know, but the bottom line is that.. We have this habit of entrusting our fortune to the wrong people. I just don’t want to give out details, for I’m really not that aware of what happened. You see, as I have observed, the Nazareths are not into jobs, and being employees, they're into investing, business and stuff.. So yea... It’s just so sad seeing my grammy so problematic, and I cannot do anything to help her. Worse, I brought her additional problem. What’s with late 2012-mid year 2013? Haay. Definitely not a good year for the Nazareths.

When I was growing up, I didn’t experience problems like these. It’s so easy being a kid, indeed. Being part of the grown-up world is just so hard. It’s just so sad that we’ve come to this. I was not expecting this, and so as my family. We didn’t expect this to happen.. We’re so not used to this.

So... (fame) and fortune don’t last. I have learned a lot from what I’m (we’re) experiencing right now. I swear, I’m a better person today. Now that I have experienced the reality, I can say that life really has its ups and downs. You may be on top now, you’ll never know what will happen tomorrow.

*siiiiiggghhhh*

I’m praying for a better tomorrow, and for the next days, months and years to come to be the best…

No matter what happened, I’m sure that my family will be strong for each other. I’m just so lucky to have the Nazareths behind me. They are indeed the best family in the world.

Whatever happens, always remember.. GOD NEVER BLINKS!

 

Who knows what tomorrow brings? Hold on.. Be strong..

<3 Steffany Blair

SOMETIMES THE GIRL THAT'S BEEN THERE FOR EVERYONE ELSE NEEDS SOMEONE TO BE THERE FOR HER. 

MY POT OF GOLD.

That "ATTY." is my pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.

In order to get that, I got to put up with the rain.

 

 

I don't know about the other law students, but I'm pretty sure that I'm so exhausted right now, to think that I'm just half way on celebrating anniversary with this. I had thoughts of quitting, especially when I've experienced a lot of bullcraps when I was just starting. The only thing that is making me want to stay is my family. They have invested 6 months for my post-grad studies, and then what? I'll quit and disappoint them? I won't! Yes, I know, this has always been my dream, but.. I don't know. I cannot explain. It's just that... it's so hard to be in this world, or maybe I'm still adjusting? For heaven's sake, self, you're on your 6th month!!

 

Earlier in class, our Dean (who was our professor, too), gave a little homily to the class. He said that we should study hard-er and that we should look at our dream of becoming a lawyer as our pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, that explains the quote I typed up there.. yes, up there! Every time our professors talk about their experiences as lawyers, their hardships, and how they want us to see reciting our lawyer's oath, makes me want to strive harder! I am not very bright, but I know I'm not stupid. I can make it here, I know I can. Our professors are just so inspiring.

 

I feel like I just quit law school when I dropped my Criminal Law 1 class for the reason that I cannot study anymore. I started to ask myself, what the hell did I do? Why did I raise the white flag without even trying? On second thought, this is a safe place for me right now. I always tell my friends to fight for our dreams, and we will be lawyers, too, in no time! We don't have to rush things because law school is not about the span of time you have spent in school, but on how much you have learned. Slowly but surely, as they say, is the best motto in law school.

 

I can sense that my facebook friends are annoyed already with all my rants about school, but please, you cannot blame me, I need to release my thoughts, or I will die! Ever had that feeling of being so exhausted and all you want to do is to shout it all out? Well, that's basically how I feel-- every f-ing day (and night). My rants may sometimes be too much, I know, I'm sorry, but that's just my way of releasing my stress. Uhh. Maybe you'll say.. "in social media?!" Oh well, I would answer you this way.. Yes, in social media. BECAUSE I need an outlet for everything, and I need someone who will understand me, and talk to me to help me out. It may look like I'm seeking attention, but what I'm looking for is comfort.

 

Today, I am thinking on how to be the best law student that I can be. I have to major in time management, and do a lot of juggling. The most important thing to do is.. I have to focus on my goal, my dream, and my journey on getting it done.

 

I will be one of the officers of the law of the land, one day.. SOMEDAY..

 

Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you've imagined.

 

 

Dream big.. Dreams do come true,

Steffany Blair <3

 

 



TECHIE REVIEW: LENOVO IDEAPAD YOGA 11

Lenovo Ideapad Yoga 11 is one of the newest offerings of Lenovo. It is an ultra-slim convertible laptop. It can be converted into a tablet, and runs with Windows RT.

grabbed from Google images: Lenovo Ideapad Yoga 11

I have been using my own ideapad Yoga 11 (which I call my Yogieboo) for almost 2 months now, and as a student, I can say that it is very convenient to use. At first I was hesitant to ask my mom to buy this lappy for me, for I want an iPad mini, instead, but I thought of buying a convertible so I could make use of the Microsoft office, which is a basic app for students like me. Since Yogieeboo is convertible, I can use it as a tablet, also. It's a little bigger and heavier than iPad, though, but it fits me well.

What I love about Yogieboo is its battery life. Imagine, I'm using it for 24 hours doing research, checking on my social networking sites, taking photos, and watching movies, but I only charge him once. I usually start the day with full-charged battery Yoga, and end it with 23% remaining. How cool is that? I'm using it for 24 hours already, and the battery isn't drained yet? Cool, right? Perfect for long trips, if you have something to do, and you're in a car or where ever. I also love that it is, well yea, convertible. I can use it as a normal laptop, or I could use it as a tablet. It's very convenient, especially when I don't have much space in my study table, I could just put it on tent mode, and it fits perfectly. Yogieboo's audio, or speakers, are excellent as well. They are so loud and clear. Oh, and yes, of course, Yogieboo is touchscreen, so it's easy to use. And it's censor is very friendly, so there's no difficulty on using it. There are tons of reasons why I love Yogieboo, but of course, it is NOT PERFECT. I don't like it's camera that much, for I think, it's only 2MP, but it will suit you for Skype or any other video call conversations. As for a vain person like me, I think I want a little more upgraded camera, but yes, I know, this is a lappy, and not a camera. HAHAHA! I am not also a fan of its WINDOWS RT program. Since Yogieboo is run by Windows RT, I cannot download anything that I want nor install devices I need because Windows RT only allows you to install apps/programs that are available on the Windows Store. Although there are a lot of apps in the Windows Store, I still need some apps to be installed that aren't available on the WS, yet. So that's basically the negative point of the Yoga 11, but if your need is just to surf and type, well, it will definitely fit your needs.

I will recommend students to buy this convertible laptop, for I believe that this was made for us. Its convenience suits our everyday need. In addition, it has three (3) usb ports, and an HDMI port. Of course a spot for your headphones/headset, and a slot for SD memory card. Money wise, Yogieboo is not expensive for it will certainly cater to your needs. I got mine at $400.00 or less, I'm not really sure about the price, sorry. hahaha.

If you need a better version of Yogieboo, which runs by Windows 8, you should consider buying Ideapad Yoga 13. It's a little bigger, and I guess a little better than this. Nonetheless, Lenovo is still the best brand of laptop for me. This is actually my second Lenovo lappy. I'm a happy Lenovo lover. Try Lenovo now!

P.S. I am no techie person, that is why when I love a product, there must have been really special on it for me to love. <3

H|K,
Blair C.N.

LAW SCHOOL IS A BATTLEFIELD.

I am now on a short break from my busy life as a law student just to write and share my experience in law school. It was never  a secret that my only dream profession is to become a lawyer. Who does not dream of becoming the best in his chosen field, right? Of course, I want to be one, if not the most, of the most successful lawyers in the land. I had no idea what kind of battle that law students are facing, or what kind of world law school is. Now that I am on my 6th month of being a law student, I can say that I am sort of reliable when it comes to sharing the earliest stage in law school.

I am an aspiring LASALLIAN LAWYER. Yes, I am a student of De La Salle - College of Law, and I am so proud to be one, for I can see clearly the plans of the school for us, students. Oh wait, this post is not about me, but about us, the law students -- facing the battle in law school.

Law school is basically a battlefield. It is the survival of the fittest. During the first day of school, there will be no "introduce yourself." The professors will give you time to fill-up the details in your class card, and off you start the battle, the recitation. The most common method of teaching used in law school is the SOCRATIC METHOD. If you try to Google it, you will learn that this method is when the professor calls you to recite, without him discussing the topic first. As I describe law proper course in my own words, it is a self-study course. Why? Well, basically, the professors will just throw questions on you and you answer based on what you have read, and that's it. Some professors discuss the topic, but others do not. Anyway, I first thought that this kind of method is torture for students, but when you think of it, it is the BEST method for law school. Here, the students will be pushed to study, and to really understand everything. Also, with this kind of method, the students develop a strong personality and a strong heart, for them (well, us) not to be tamed when they become lawyers. New students won't understand it now, but soon they will.

If you ask me on what the common problems of the law students are, well, I can only point out few. First, the readings. We have to read and read and read a lot! 150 pages are minimum number of pages for law students to read, plus all the cases, in their original form, which in our case: the SCRA. It is not really that hard to read, what is hard is to understand everything that you have read. Second, is time. As Art. 13 of the Civil Code states, there are 24 hours in a day. In this 24 hours, 3 or 4 hours will be spent in class, and few hours to eat and sleep (if you can still sleep), and the rest will be spent on reading. See, law students don't have much time to enjoy life. That is why you have to be 101% ready when you enter law school. I cannot identify more problems now, for I am so blank with all my reading, but I am sure that there are tons!

For my advise, I always say these encouraging words to my classmates, for them to be motivated. DO NOT QUIT, FOR YOU WILL BE A LAWYER AND NOT A FRUSTRATED LAWYER. Next, NO PAIN COMES WITHOUT A PURPOSE. And last, IT WILL ALL BE WORTH IT  IN THE END! So for those who are planning to enter law school, think not only  twice but a million times! You have to be prepared, not just physically, but mentally, emotionally and spiritually! You have to do a lot of sacrificing in order to reach the finish line. Always remember, law school will just get 4 or 5 years of your life, and after that, everything will fall into place. Believe in yourself, and push your dreams!

Here are some of my snaps during my journey, so far..

before the opening of classes.. getting ready!!

my tip on memorizing.. use manila papers! post it on your wall!! works for me! <3

eat sweets while studying. it boost your memory!


Pray, and the Lord will provide! Good luck to all the aspiring lawyers! Cheers to us! <3

"It will  all be worth it in the end!"

H|K:
Blair C.N <3

FAMILY IS BETTER THAN DIAMONDS.

Have you ever asked the Lord why he gave you your family? Why not have a different family, or have the power to switch families with your friends’ or some celebs’ perhaps? Worse, have you ever prayed for your family to be gone in a snap? Well, I had those times. Not really those times, but quite close with those circumstances. In this post, I will describe you what kind of family I have now, and what lessons I have learned for the past couple of months that made me realize that I have one of the best families in the planet. I hope that after you read this, you will treasure the family that God has blessed you with.

I used to hate my family ‘cause it’s a whole lot different compared to others’. I had this thing of comparing my family to my friends’ family, and ended up having gabazillion questions in mind, which usually start with “WHY.” Some thinks that I come from a very perfect home, and living a very perfect life because of how I represent myself, but what they cannot see are the tears behind every smile that I project. My family is not as perfect as they think.

My dad used to be a veterinarian, and co-owner of a poultry. We used to have a poultry, but he had to give that up to enter into a new business since poultry is hard to manage. He entered into agricultural business, wherein he managed a papaya plantation—not really a plantation, but you know what I mean. It was successful, but due to some personal reasons, he had to give that up also. Now, he is a retired businessman, I can say. He’s just staying here at home and helping his parents, my grandparents, around the house. My mom, used to be our homemaker, left the country last 1997 to study arts, especially photography, and eventually entered into medical field, and now she is an assistant brain surgeon in Philadelphia, USA. My sister, who has always been my hero, is now an engineer and a mother of two beautiful children. She is definitely the most responsible woman I know. Last is my brother whom I always describe as a very handsome young man, is now in his last year in college. Just simple description of my family, to let you know that we’re simple as that, and we’re not that perfect, we’re just humans.

I grew up in a very cozy home. It was small, near the church and some fast food chains. There were trees, and a backyard where I can play along with my sibs and cousins. I grew up with a whole lot traditions to be followed, and I get used to it. I had a great family, until October 1997, when my mom left us. Yes, I come from a broken family. And yes again, I used to get jealous with those whose families are complete, but I got the hang out of it, and accepted the fact that this is the kind of family that I am blessed with. Now, you’re asking how? Let me share it with you…

First I shall ask, why hate a family that was given to you when all they do is love to love you. That made you think, right? Well, great! How can I hate the family who did nothing but to accept and to understand me beyond my imperfections? It is hard to be a rebel just because of the situation that you didn’t even know how to control. I just came to realize that it is pointless to be a rebel for it will not just hurt the people who love me so much, but it will also hurt myself a lot. Being a spoiled bratt that I am, I used to follow my own rules, and yes, be with my friends rather than attending family gatherings. I had that I’m-choosing-my-friends-over-family moments. I have realized that it was so wrong. It is unfair to follow my own rules, while my family always do the adjustments. What is sad about my realizations is that I had to experience one huge problem before I come to realized that what I’m doing is all wrong, and I have to change for the better. It took me a long time before I realized these things.

Now, for those like me, do not waste time with your family just because you’re mad at the current situation. Live for today, and do not worry about tomorrow for it is yet to come. Spend time with your loved ones, and do not let your today be a regret of your tomorrow. If you’re thinking that you have yet to experience that one huge happening that will have a big impact in your life before changing, then think again. True, “experience is the best teacher” but you have to admit, everyday is a new experience and this should me enough for a better learning.

I’m hoping for everyone to change their negative views towards their family and encouraging everyone to not just be part of the family, but to be one with the family. You don’t need to be rich, nor poor to be a one happy family. All you need is to share that one great love and be united all the time. Love them now while you still have them.

“Like the branches on a tree, we all grow in different directions, yet our roots remain as one… because that is a FAMILY!”

If you have some issues/concerns about family that you want to tackle, just let me know.

H|K : BlairC.N.

Tweet me @steffnazareth

EVERY SUMMER HAS A STORY...

...BUT THIS YEAR, IT'S MORE LIKE A NOVEL!☀

Let me share to you what I did this Summer. Please pretend that you care.😆

My Summer 2013 is a whole lot different from all of my Summers. I used to go to the beach a lot during this season, especially when I started working because I got to pay for my own trips. This year, since it was my first summer as a student--- again (yes, 'cause I'm back to school, taking up law proper) I didn't get the chance to schedule a lot of trips because of our school activities, and other personal matters. My status financially didn't allow me to visit the beach as often as before. It's hard to ask my dad for money after I have experienced working and earning for my own. Yes, I have stayed in our house almost everyday of this vacation, and joined my friends if I have means to do so.

I was fortunate to be with my high school friends this summer. We went to Kabayan beach resort in Laiya, San Juan Batangas. It was well organized, thanks to my friends. We have spent Php 1,500.00 each (fare, food, and accommodation). It was my first summer get-away this year. We were 8, and we stayed at their Mustasa house (Php 6,000.00). The place is nice, it's just that we have shared our room with gabazillion mosquitoes, so we had to request for a catol just to beat those mosquitoes. The beach is not that clean anymore (well, blame this issue to the people, not the resort).  My friends and I enjoyed the place because the security is tight, the staff are very accommodating, they provide the kitchen utensils, they have water activities, for a very affordable price. Aside from the mosquitoes, we just wished we can enjoy the pool a little bit longer. Nevertheless, I would recommend the Kabayan Beach Resort for those who want to have a quick get-away, since it's near Manila, and you can reach it through land, no need for plane, nor boat ride.

One of the most memorable that I did this summer is that I have participated in the national campaign for 1-Aalalay partylist. You may have know this, but it was one of my dreams to be part of the political world, but since our family is not into those kinds of things, I just chose to be a lawyer-- close enough? Anyway, the dad of my high school bestfriend ran as one of the representatives of 1-Aalalay (Isang Alyansang aalalay sa Pinoy Skilled Workers) and being so close to the family, I helped them by joining in their proclamation rally, and motorcade. I wasn't able to join them during the house-to-house campaign due to some personal matters, but I did my own campaigning. Until now, I'm praying that they can make it, and will be proclaimed as one of our country's party lists. I'm for this party list not only because the nominees are so close to me, but I believe that this party list can make a change, and can give opportunities to our countrymen. *I thank you, bow* hahaha!

I also had time to meet my grade school bestfriends because my girl bestfriend went home from Singapura. We were supposed to go to the beach, but the plans changed. We went to Club Balai Isabel, instead, and stayed  in their house for a few tequila shots. I believe that Club Balai Isabel are for members/stockholders only, but I think you can rent some villas through the owners, not really sure though. Club Balai Isabel is just a few minute drive away from our hometown, Tanauan City Batangas. It was near so we didn't spend the night there, we went home after, and had a little house party with my GBF (Girl BestFriend) and her childhood friends (who happen to be my friends, also). My friend stayed here for a week, and I have spent two, or three days and nights with her. We called those nights, THE YOLO FEAST. We drunk like there's no tomorrow. It was fun!

Then, I went to White Cove, Laiya San Juan Batangas, alone for some soul searching. White Cove is beside Kabayan, so it was easy for me to go there. That trip is by far my cheapest soul searching trip ever! I only spent Php 500.00 for everything! I left the house at lunch time, and got there at 4 o'clock in the afternoon. It was required to rent a cabana, and so I did-- FOR FREE! I was haggling for it, I don't want to spend Php 1,500.00 for a cabana that I won't be using! hahaha. Sometimes, charm works *wink* So I only paid the entrance fee which was lowered from Php 300.00 to Php 120.00. I was very thankful for the staff for letting me experience the beach at a very affordable price. It was one of the most amazing trips of my life. Yes, I went to White Cove twice this summer, one with an old friend.

Lastly, I've been spending a lot of my time this vacation baby sitting my sister's kids. My goddaughter, who is 4 years old, and my nephew, who is now 2 months old. My sister started working again after her maternity leave, but she got no nanny, yet, for her baby boy. As a loving sister, kidding-- I had no choice since I'm still on vacation, I was forced to take care of the kids. I'm having fun spending time with the kids. It's hard to take care of a one-month old kid, but yep, I survived a week with the two of 'em. HAHA! I'm as good as that. uhh-maaziiing, I know. I know.👶

So there, That is how I spent my summer 2013, so far. I had no regrets this vacation. I may not have spend it like I used to, but this is new to me and will definitely be part of my journal, and lifetime memories.

Here's a glimpse of MY SUMMER 2013:

 

 

So how's your summer, friends? I hope you had a memorable one. I'm sure I did.😉

 

 

H|K--

--the summer kinda girl : BlairC.N.

tweet me @steffnazareth

 



"The tans will fade, but the memories will last forever."

BEAUTY TIP: FROM FRIZZY TO PRETTY HAIR

Just like other women, I had problems with my hair. It was either too straight and dull, or too frizzy, and dry. I never tried relaxing nor rebonding my hair because I'm scared that my hair will be worse due to the chemicals used. I visit the salon twice a year, imagine. I am not that vain, and I am a fan of home remedies, when I feel like there's something wrong with myself.

Summer of 2009, I've had my haircut and it was really short. The stylist cut my hair using a blade. Of course, when I got out of the salon, it was perfect! They used a blower and hair iron to make it look good, that's what salons do, right? The next day, when I went to my OJT, then, I noticed that my hair was too short, and too frizzy. A friend told me that using blade to cut your hair will make my hair frizzy, yes buhaghag. I had to accept it and tie my hair everyday of my life, but it was too short, you know. So yes, I had that bad-hair-day-everyday syndrome when I was 18 years old.

I asked Google gabazillion times for remedy, but it gave me answers like putting mayonnaise, egg yolk, and other products on my hair, which I didn't do. Yes, I also used those commercial products that they say will help you to straighten your hair. Unfortunately, none of them work. I was tempted to have my hair relaxed or rebonded, but I didn't. Until one day, when we had our team building, I accidentally discovered this organic shampoo and conditioner. The place where we had our team building prohibits the use of commercial product, so the sell organic toiletries. I cannot go on a day without using a conditioner, so I bought one there. We stayed there for 3 days only, so I didn't finish the conditioner. I brought it home and use it until I finished the whole bottle.

I was surprised to see that my hair was straighten by the conditioner, since I didn't use the shampoo that long. I've been using this conditioner for 4 years now, and still satisfied with it. Now, I want to share with you, especially ladies, the SWALLOW HAIR STRAIGHT HONEY CONDITIONER.

 

 

It smells like baby shampoo, and it's cheap. It only cost Php 99.00. It can be found in Landmark and Cash and Carry, I don't know where else can you buy this product. I pair it with PANTENE GLOSSY SHINE SHAMPOO, so my hair will have that scent of commercial hair products. And I think it's a great combo.

 

 

I hope this will help your hair problems. Let me know how it goes.

 

H|K : BlairC.N.

tweet me @steffnazareth



MOVED.

I finally had the time to create a new blog, after countless months. I've been dying to create a new blog to express my emotions, and to share all my random thoughts, but I didn't have time since I entered law school. Computer time is only reserved for searching cases, when you're in law school.

 

I had a hard time thinking of a new name for my blog because I have used steffanyblair to express my random-est thoughts, and yes nonsense ones, before. I thought of using painistemporary as my new blog name, but I think it's too dramatic. I wanted something extraordinary that will suit any kind of posts that I'll be sharing with the reader (as if i'll have gabazillion of readers haha) I've also thought of aglimpseofblair since my blog is the place wherein people can actually get all the latest buzz about my life, well except for twitter-- my forever micro-blogging site, but then again, I think it won't fit my crazy thoughts. Until I came up with the idea of using blairyrandomthoughts which I derived from "very random thoughts" phrase. I think this blog name is the perfect name because readers can expect the most random stuff to be written here and the most craziest thoughts are to be shared here.

 

While choosing the perfect name for my blog, I've wished to be a famous celebrity, so I could just ask my twitter followers to do the thinking for me. Nevertheless, it's fulfilling that the name of this blog came from my own mind. I should be proud, right?

 

Anyway, I have gabazillion stories to tell. I can't wait to share them with everyone.

 

 

 

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H&K | Blair C.N.